How To Attract Girls
Stop me if you’ve heard this story before: you’ve spent the last hour working up your courage, rubbing your hands together so furiously you might set your palms on fire, memorizing pickup lines from books and audio courses and movies… only to get shut down from the second you approach a woman – or even worse, get that “don’t you even dare, loser” look that withers you instantly.
Getting shut down before you’re out of the blocks – it sucks. It sucks even more to see those same girls who turned their nose up at you like you were a carton of rotten eggs suddenly act all sweet to every other random guy out there. Those kind of situations make you feel helpless and pissed off, right?
Well it’s a good thing you’re here, because I’m about to save you from yourself. Attraction is the first step in any kind of relationship, romantic, platonic, sexual – you name it, and it doesn’t work without that initial spark.
So what do attractive women see in other guys that they aren’t seeing in you? And how can you get that “spark” you need to make the right first impression?
What Women Want
Look, I don’t have all day to explain female psychology, and you don’t have all day to learn about it. Women want men who are:
Ambitious. No, you don’t need to be loaded to get with a woman. The trick is that when she closes her eyes and imagines you ten years in the future, she can think you MIGHT be loaded by then. Are you trying to do something with your life? Do you respect yourself and care about yourself?
Unique. Women want men who are special. You don’t dress like other guys dress. You don’t talk like other guys talk. You don’t think like other guys think. Women don’t like boring, conventional guys that suck up to them in hopes of getting laid, and that’s 90% of guys.
Desirable. Do other people want to talk to you? Do they think you’re attractive?
Let’s break down how to get that stuff handled from the time they see you from the moment you utter your first sentence.
Ambitious
A guy who smells good and looks good cares about the way he looks. And a man who cares about the way he looks cares about the way other people think about him, and cares about his future.
You can communicate power and ambition by taking care of your inner and outer appearance. If you can afford a gym, go. If you can’t, do thirty pushups and run around your block every day. Groom all the excess hair from your ears, nose, back, all of it. Shave the neckbeard.
Pimples – eliminate them. If you’re old enough to be reading this blog, you’re too old to walk around with pepperoni on your cheeks.
And I shouldn’t have to say this, but you need to look and smell good at all times. Don’t just do this when you’re “expecting” to meet women – opportunities approach all the time, and you can’t ever be caught flat-footed.
Don’t buy those tacky washes and sprays – go to an actual department store and grab a scent a man would wear. Sandalwood, Lemon Verbena and Patchouli are both good scents to try out.
Unique
Next time you’re in school or at your job… look around. What are your friends wearing? T-Shirts and jeans, probably. You can afford to do better. This isn’t really the venue for teaching you how to dress and build your wardrobe, but you should:
Wear clothes grownups wear.
Wear clothes that fit properly. T-shirts aren’t nightgowns. They shouldn’t hand past your pockets or droop around your arms. If the seam on a T-shirt doesn’t fit on the top of your shoulder (not the neck, not the bicep) throw it in the garbage. If your pants need a tight belt to stay put, or you need to wriggle out of them like a fat chick, throw them out.
Finally, wear stuff most guys don’t have the courage to wear. You don’t need to go around like a cartoon character, but dress with some style. Scarves, ascots, rings, chains, bracelets, a belt buckle… all this is good stuff.
Desirable
Once your body looks good, and what you’re wearing looks right, you can start working on your attitude – this is the hardest part of getting that initial attraction, because you’ve got to correct a lot of bad habits. Work on your voice. Enunciate, speak slowly, and speak about 30 percent louder than you think you need to (especially if you’re a gamer or an internet junkie).
Keep your feet shoulder length apart, keep your chin up, and smile.
If you’re doing this stuff right, you’re going to see really good results – obviously, you’ve got another set of hurdles once you open your mouth 
– but nothing attracts women like… well, being attractive.
